I too am experiencing this annoying phenomenon...and we are not alone. Over on the Apple Forums for Mac OS X Tiger, several other people have...
Yes you can...You can even marry the pre-made people that you have no control over, such as the Mailman, Maid, Pizza Delivery person, or those...
How about: Nights in White Satin - The Moody Blues Forever Autumn - Justin Hayward
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