dats all a bit complicated ..why dont u put in the cheat unlockCareerRewards the bring them bakc to life move them out and then kill them.....im the past 4 years ive been playn sims not once did my sim die of frite ...well not by a ghost anyway...a toddle i think has six days on the time bar i down loaded a cheat thats a picture of a baby and u click onit the toddlers anme comes up then u click if u want it to learn to walk talk or be ptty trained it saves so much time