Engaged? I have a female sim who was engaged to a male sim. She has since moved in with and is in love with another male sim. I want the new male and my female to get engaged/married, but the propose option won't come up. Is this because she is still engaged to other sim?
Invite the sim you wish to disengage over to the house, let him see your female sim kissing her new love. The invited sim will get mad and probably slap someone. Have your female fight with him. You'll probably get an option to break-up. It worked that way with the last household where I wanted to undo an engagement, but it doesn't always work so conveniently. Some sims are sort of laid back about what their partners do.